What DON'T they don't want
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| Number 1 rule is DO NOT GET DRUNK!! So many guys come to swinging clubs, get too drunk, think their are being the perfect male swinger when in fact they are slurring words, talking rubbish and swaying all over the place. Heavy drinking will ruin all your chances and possibly have you removed from the club. No one likes drunk people slurring their words and talking nonsense at the best of times let alone wondering if you can get it up at all!!!! So your sober, what else do they not want. They do not want a guy who see's the lady as just a fuck for himself i.e. for him to fuck as a piece of meat and walk off. They do not want to be seen as shag pieces and another notch on the post for the guy. This is obvious to the couple from the start even if you don't think it is. Although the end result may be the same the approach is very important. Remember this and act this way and you are half way there. | |
