After surveying members who have had success in finding like minded people, we have compiled a list of the top ten ways to get noticed and be successful in your quest. Along with these are the reasons why. Good luck!

1. Place a picture with your ad- Men, women and couples have stated that the first thing they notice when deciding to make contact with a user is the picture! Putting a face or body to an ad encourages them to read their ad further! Remember cock shots only usually get passed up, shoulders to the knees please!

2. Eye Catching Heading- The majority of women and couples stated that ads without pictures still had a chance if the heading of the ad caught their eye. Generic titles of "lets fuck" seemed all to common. Their suggestions was, include something unique, be descriptive!

3. Descriptive ads- Ok, so you've put up your ad and you are not getting any replies. In our survey, the majority of users stated that short ads that lacked in depth descriptions where passed up immediately! Users want to know about YOU and what YOU are looking for. Tell them about your limits, interests, kinks, desires. Include your turn on and offs, maybe even a fantasy!

4. Participate in the Forums- In this survey, many users used the forums as a way to get to know other users. Remember, if someone is looking at your ad, they will see your responses in the forums and get a better idea about you as a person. Are you fun? Pushy? Or someone they want to know more about?

5. Participate in Chat- When this question was posed to users in our survey, many users stated that the chat room is a great place to get to know someone instantly. The video chat rooms can be a busy place, and it's a great way to chat face to face!

6. Don't be Pushy- One of the big turn offs to women and couples was pushy users. It is FREE to contact users on this site so there is no need to push for email addresses or phone numbers, get to know them. You can achieve your goals by first getting to know users and moving on from there. Replying to an ad with your email or phone number is not a good idea; people look at it like spam and or will report you to the administrators for such things.

7. Add a Voice or Video Introduction- The premium users' love watching your videos! This will tell them a lot about what you are like in the bedroom or what you sound like in person. This is a definite way to show them you are serious about meeting! We do not limit your media so put up as many videos as you like. Not to mention you can send them a video email!

8. Friends Network- This is a great way to keep track of those you are interested in. The more people in your network the more apt you are to be taken seriously. So take the time to make friends and invite them to join your network!

9. Always Reply To someone who has contacted you- Remember you are not the only person they will contact and users do talk to one another. If you do not reply with "sorry I'm not interested or yes let's get to know one another, people will assume you are not serious about meeting!

10. One of the biggest ways to get noticed is become a premium member! Yes this is true, and not a marketing ploy! Premium members enjoy the perks of being listed top in the search results. They also usually log in daily to check their mail, view others videos and participate in the forums and chat! This also lets others know you are very serious about meeting up!

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