The approach
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| Swinging couples like to be in the driving seat but this doesn't mean the guy can't make the first move. The biggest mistake is to talk to a couple and mention the swinging in the first few minutes. Opening lines such as 'Are you in to single guys' or 'Do you play in the club' indicate a wrong attitude and even desperation. Say hello and some small talk about the club or something that is going on. Do not hassle them or corner them. The best trick is to chat for a bit and then leave them to discuss it. They will want to know if their partners are ok with it, like you and fancy some fun. | |
