The once taboo lifestyle is becoming more and more socially acceptable. Many of those interviewed stated that yes they were indeed a swingers couple though they refrain from talking about it among family members and co-workers. It was also said that many of the limits encountered by these swinger couples where those from local governments and police.

Some of the most popular adult clubs are clustered in the Commercial Center, which is where Dave Cooper wanted to open a legal swingers club with no hookers. He calls it Sextasy and, unlike his competitors who've been licensed for years, was very open with officials about what would go on here. He's been told he's not getting a license to open. "We're being punished for not being a hypocrite, which is apparently the accepted way to do it," he said. "Everybody isn't into this lifestyle, but everybody is doing what we're doing, only in another matter," said Borchers. We'd like to hear from you, does your city condone swinging, or is it left to better to be an underground group who is forced to feel like they are doing something wrong?