It's my first time, what will be expected of me
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| It is extremely unlikely that you will be pressured into doing anything with which you are not comfortable. Make your feelings and expectations known (as well as any "no-no"s) to potential swinging partners and the overwhelming majority will accept them with no questions asked and without putting pressure on you. Of course, it helps enormously if you are clear in your own mind where you would like to set your personal boundaries. You should also have a clear understanding of what your partner feels about what he or she would like to do and what he or she would be comfortable with you doing! Some couples even have special signs or code words to use in swinging situations to tell each other whether or not they are comfortable with something. | |
