A lot of people have fantasies about being made to do things they wouldn't normally do. This is called domination and can include adult sex activities like bondage, whipping, discipline, sadomasochism and restraint. It also involves role playing where one person will take on the role of 'the tart' and another 'the butch Leather man'. "If you are under someone's control you do as you are asked to do and you have to expect the unexpected", says an experienced submissive. "In a way it's a sense of freedom and rather relaxing being a submissive person, especially if your day job demands you to be in control and confident all day long." A common and controversial sex-fantasy among women is to being taken or aggressively dominated by a man in a 'rape' role-playing situation. It is about the stranger that overpowers you in the car park or the pirate that kidnaps you and turns you into his sex slave. According to a popular woman's magazine fantasizing about rape can be a way of escaping or disconnecting from your daily stresses. It is a way of relinquishing personal control by assuming a submissive role. They also claim that a domination fantasy can be rough - even involving screaming, shouting or smacking - or it can be romantic, where your partner ties you up with silk scarves, slowly teasing you, building you up to a very powerful orgasm. Some adults use their life experience to think up new fantasies and as background for role play. For example a retired nurse dresses and acts like a nurse or teacher that mothers and trains her sex partners telling them what is right and wrong. This is called the infantile fantasy. If it has always been your fantasy to be mothered and to act like a baby then this lady claims she will make you feel part of her family. Another very popular fetish or fantasy involves wearing an outfit made from rubber, leather or PVC. The huge turn on with rubber is the smell and the fact that you feel tightly encased within it. Some even go as far as to claim that rubber will heighten your orgasm. One swinger describes his custom made rubber suit as wearing another skin. Foreplay for this sex addicts is dressing up in his leather outfit and having sex through undone zips. He says:" to do this you have to talc the rubber inside and out to make is slippery. It's very bizarre and it allows you to play games with the other person." Restriction can also take on other forms like mummification, where one is wrapped up in bandages and left alone for hours, or wrapping yourself in cellophane. Adults taking part in mummification claim that this type of confinement brings peace of mind because you are left alone for hours. Now that you have a broad overview of the most popular fantasies,someone else by commenting on this article.