April 2005 Newsletter

IMPROVE YOUR CHANCES - Here's How....

• Don't get 'Straight to the Point' - Sending a 'cockshot' or genital shot with your first email to a member or telling them in graphic detail what you want to do, or have done, is a sure fire way of turning most people off. Build a rapport with other members and as you get to know each other then send photos and start the sexual conversations up. Treat your email swing relationships as you would any other. People want to know they will be treated well and will enjoy themselves in your company so do your best to show off your personality.
• Tell a Story - It is preferable that you email a personal detailed email to any member you want to contact. One line group emails have a way of looking like exactly that, and if a member thinks they are one of many being contacted, they will be less likely to respond. Pick up on the information supplied in a member's profile, and if you want to, compliment the attached photo for a better response (this works particularly well with the girls!) do so.
  
• Be Photogenic - As we have already mentioned, don't send a graphic photo to a member before you have been invited to. As most members have a photo or two attached to their profile, you can usually get a good idea of what they look like. If there is someone you particularly want to get the attention of, send them other pictures of yourself that are private photos. Including a photograph with your profile ups your chances by more than 35% of being contacted. People who get a lot of email will not be interested in giving out hotmail addresses to start with.
  
• Speak Properly - It is best when initially contacting a member to write in grammatically correct English, to the best of your ability. No-one likes trying to decipher your own version of text-speak, so think about how best to put your desires and feelings into words.

CHAT TO YOUR HEART'S CONTENT

Are you a little bit shy, or unsure of how to start interacting with other members? Some of our newer members have found the 'chat' facility on the site is a great, non-threatening way to start interacting with other members. You can say as much or as little as you like, and if one (or more) members catch your eye in the chat room, you can always check out their profile and if you like what you see, get in touch to set up some fun in the future.

To get to the chat room, just click on 'Chat' on the right hand menu once you have logged in

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